Wednesday, March 31, 2010

Who the EFF do these people think they are?!

This is the latest from People Magazine on the Jesse James/Sandra Bullock scandal:

"Jesse checked himself into a treatment facility to deal with personal issues," his rep said in a statement. "He realized that this time was crucial to help himself, help his family and help save his marriage."

What the HECK is he doing checking into rehab? Is he honestly going to pull a 'sex addiction' story like Tiger did? There is no sex addiction here OR in Tigers case. The case is simple. These men are married and don't like being with only one woman. So, they cheat. Then they get caught. Then they repent to the public and go to 'treatment'.

What they should do is go straight to a lawyers office to get the best representation they can to defend against their upcoming divorce. The fact that EITHER of these women are hesitating to divorce these men is crazy to me.

Marriage is a SACRED THING. Your wedding vows state that you will be FAITHFUL. If you really believed in marriage as an institution, or heck, even just a THEORY, and you were telling the truth when you said those words (which, you SHOULD HAVE BEEN!!!) going against that makes you a liar. You lied to your spouse, to your family, to your friends, to your community, to everyone else even remotely involved.

As I have said before, if you don't want to be faithful, DON'T GET MARRIED. It's that simple.

I just don't get why these celebrities (and probably plenty of other normal people as well, we just don't read about it) get married in the first place. They clearly aren't in it for the long haul, OR the right reasons. I don't of course have all the right reasons, but to be faithful to one person for the rest of your life has GOT to be one of them. Again, if being with just one person for the rest of your living days is too much for you to handle, then PLEASE step out of line at the altar and DON'T get married in the first place. That way, your spouse, family, friends and public (as with the celebritards) won't judge you.

We'll judge you for other things sure, but not for breaking your vow of faithfulness.

1 comment:

Dollface said...

I agree 100%! I think that they should not get married unless they are full ready to commit. I think this checking into rehab because you cheat is bullshit... xxxooo